Matchmaker myths

Busting a few Matchmaker myths:

Matchmaking is for the rich an beautiful only:

The truth is many  matchmaking agencies allow only a certain type of client to join .i.e the Rich, Beautiful, Educated and well traveled . However if you are the aforementioned, why would you need my services, potential partners would be cuing in front of your door?My clients are everyday people. Each single man or woman is unique and comes with his or her own set of circumstances. You might not be a rich executive but an artist. This is great as some of my clients are not interested in meeting Executive and the job of a matchmaker is to find out which each client has to offer to a partner and match them up with the partner who requires those attributes. I believe everyone deserves love and I will design a program which will work within each person’s specific set of circumstances, both emotional and financial. Programs are designed to help each person find their dream without tapping into their grocery money.

Matchmakers are for losers:

The age-old stigma of hiring a matchmaker makes you a member of the desperate hearts and lonely souls club is long past. In fact, hiring a matchmaker is the “in” thing to do. Hey you are using professionals for your taxes and car repairs, why should your personal life be different? Matchmakers find out all the important things before you even meet the person. For example if you do not want kids, you typically do not want someone who wants a whole rugby team of little ones., but typically you would only find that out around the third date or so. So you already wasted a lot of time with something that will never become a serious relationship. Also matchmakers screen out the people with too much baggage.  

Matchmakers is expensive and I can go on line for free:

Of course you can go on line to one of those “free” sites, but the truth is, they are really not free. Think about all the time you have to invest into the free site, first by creating your charismatic profile, then weeding through thousands of profiles looking for a match, then messaging back and forth, and, you are lucky, you might even make it to a date. I know that I value my time and time is money. Also consider money you waste on disappointing and pointless encounters or the “girl” in Russia who needs you to send $1000 so she can leave her country to be with you! Point is, you get what you pay for.

Only women pay to hire a matchmaker: 

This may be the case for some services, but it is clearly the exception, not the rule. The way I see it is that both men and women pay for the service because by paying a fee you are showing a definite level of sincerity and desire to make the matching process work. You are making both a financial and an emotional commitment.

If I hire a matchmaker everyone in town will know:

 One of our top priorities as a matchmaker is to protect the confidentiality of our clients. You can expect the same type of confidentiality you would receive under the doctor/patient, lawyer/client relationship. We are here to protect and help you and not to humiliate you. We will never ever sell your information to a list company however on line services do that all the time.

So then who does hire a matchmaker?, 

• Singles who are busy with their careers and/or family hire a matchmaker. 
•  People who don’t want to waste their time browsing through thousands of profiles online only to come out frustrated and dateless, hire a matchmaker. 
• People who don’t want to waste their time meeting the wrong people hire a matchmaker. People who are serious and sincere about finding someone special to share their life with hire a matchmaker.

When you need your taxes done, you hire an accountant. When you are sick, you go to a doctor. When you have a legal problem, you hire a lawyer. When you are tired of being alone, tired of wasting your time dating the wrong people and when you are ready to be proactive, YOU hire a matchmaker because that is what intelligent people do. So before you say you are not interested in hiring a matchmaker, be sure you have all the facts before making that decision.

If you are in the Gauteng area the professional ladies from  Click Dating Agency will assist you with more information.